1. Keep baby close.
Babies thrive when they are close to
their mothers. Having baby close to you will strengthen the bond
you share. Spend time in a quiet, darkened room and connect with
your child. Drink in the face, ears, fingers and toes. You have
created a wonderful being! Mother's bare chest is the place to be, this
is your baby's habitat,
where a human infant belongs. If baby is kept skin to skin on
Mom's chest immediately after birth, the natural instinct for your baby
to find the breast and eventually latch on unassisted can take place. Babies know how to breastfeed - but they need to be in the right place.
2. Know
how to recognise that baby is getting enough milk.
Ask your
nurse/Lactation
Consultant/breastfeeding support person to help you learn how to
recognize the
pause in the chin when baby is actually drinking milk from the breast. Check out some videos and watch for the tell tale signs of swallowing. Always
remember that what goes in has to come
out. A breastfed
baby needs to be having
5-6 heavy wet diapers by day 6 and at least 2-5 poopy diapers.
3. Work on getting the best latch possible.
A
baby that is well latched will have enough nipple and areola in his
mouth so your nipples will not hurt and he will be able to drink a
sufficient amount of milk. Keep working on the latch. As
baby gets older, and you become more confidant it will become
easier.
4.
Take a
"babymoon"
Take baby to bed with you for a day
or two. Take the
phone off the hook,
sleep frequently, read a good book, watch TV, etc. Being so close to
baby,
getting rest and frequent nursing can make all the difference. This is
especially helpful if your milk supply is low, if you have mastitis
and/or are
feeling run down and exhausted. At
the
very least always try to sleep when baby sleeps.
5.
Become
Knowledgeable about breastfeeding and the early childhood period
Learn as much as you can about
breastfeeding before baby is born, if possible.
Great books include La Leche League's "The
Womanly Art of
Breastfeeding" and "Dr Jack Newman's Guide to
Breastfeeding". With
accurate
information about breastfeeding you will feel more empowered and
confident that
you will make breastfeeding work for you and your baby.
Knowledge is power!
 6. Seek
out other new mothers.
Seek
out
mothers with babies close in age and a little ahead of your own and
learn what
to expect as your baby grows. Learn from other women who have
breastfed their children. La
Leche League
is an amazing support for breastfeeding women. Don't isolate yourself at
home. Seek out
playgroups and new mother support
groups. Ontario
Early Years Centres
are
a great place to start. | | 7. Don't have any formula in the
house when you get home
Don't accept any free formula from
the hospital when you are discharged and don't go out and purchase any
to have
on hand "just in case". Giving
out free samples of formula by hospitals contravenes the WHO
International Code
on the Marketing of Breastmilk Substitutes.
Having formula readily available increases the
probability that you will
give some to baby and so experience
difficulties in latching to the breast and/or a compromised milk supply
as well
as increase the risks to baby from receiving the formula itself. |
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8. Let
others help
When others say "is there
anything I can do to help?", give them something to do!
Have a list of tasks on your fridge,
"take out the garbage", "laundry", "take the dog
out", "do the dishes" etc.
have your visitors choose one of them.
Let visitors help - if they ask then assume
that they want to do
something for you. Don't
try to be
"supermum"! 9. Be
proud to breastfeed!!
You are giving your child an amazing
gift - the very best start any baby can ask for. Be proud to
breastfeed. Learn to breastfeed discretely if you need to feel
comfortable nursing in public. Be
confident in your parenting choices, trust your instincts and when
everyone is
giving you advice - take what works for you and your family and leave
all the
rest. This is YOUR
baby - no-one else's. |